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The Intimacy Boutique

you, me + us


About The Intimacy Boutique

Welcome to The Intimacy Boutique

A safe place to open and unfold. A safe place to feel. This is your watering hole for all things intimacy: Intimacy with yourself, in a relationship, and in community. The Intimacy Boutique offers many flavors depending on what you want to explore and discover - you can take a deep dive with coaching or dip your toes in with an introductory event. Some material found here may jive with you and light you up and other offerings may not be for you. Take what you like and leave the rest.


How it Works

In·ti·ma·cy.  /ˈin(t)əməsē/.  noun
close familiarity or friendship; closeness

Below you'll find an idea of what is possible here. We break down what is most important to us and the crux of all personal development work, intimacy, into three defining categories: YOU, OTHER, COMMUNITY. Is there an area you are wanting more understanding and connection?  Begin with what calls to you the most or start with all three. They work in tandem and most often do not flow in a linear fashion, but can.



“This above all: to thine own self be true.”  William Shakespeare

Learn to live from true desire; not fear, obligation, or cultural conditioning. We can help you get to know yourself better; get in a real relationship with your desires and your fears instead of just making it day to day; and create a life filled with purpose, joy, and connection.  Think one-on-one coaching sessions, private courses, and workshops geared to spending time getting to know yourself and having what you really want!



“Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, joy, trust, intimacy, courage- everything that brings meaning to our life.”  - Brene Brown

Learn about your raw spots and how to heal through connection; gain tools to feel heard and understood and show up as your full self in all situations; learn to design a relationship that allows for personal expression, support, and a new game for growth and freedom.   We love to help couples bring back play, ease, and better sex into their romantic relationships. Think topic specific couples coaching, workshops with group diads, and new tools to make each relationship more pleasurable.

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Humans are hardwired for connection.

Maybe you are looking to open around your dating, relationships, and sexuality or perhaps you are taking a new path for your purpose, work, and what you bring to the world or maybe you need the reflection of other powerful women and a sisterhood that will support you on the ups and downs of life. Think group events and workshops, group personal development courses, and unique dinners and experiences that will touch your heart and soul.


“Instinctively. we know that those who grasp the imperatives of attachment live better lives.   Yet our culture encourages us to compete rather than connect. Even though we are programmed by millions of years of evolution to relentlessly seek out belonging and intimate connection, we persist in defining healthy people as those who do not need others.  This is especially dangerous at a time when our sense of community is daily being eroded by an endless preoccupation with getting more done in less time and filling our lives with more and more goods.”

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson


I appreciate you. I love the space you create, safe and nurturing. I'm able to freely express my perspective without judgement, allowing room for growth and healing.
You have a strong grasp on what it takes to see/listen to/understand each individual's experience. This is a special quality I rarely encounter and appreciate deeply.
- Natasha

THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH for our last session. You did get through to Tom. Things are starting to shift and I can feel a glimmer of hope that it can be OK to be me in this relationship. We had laughter & flirting and kissing this weekend, something we haven't had in years!!

- Sarah

I can't believe I've gone this far in life without asking myself the questions you taught me to ask. "What do I want?" "What's my desire?" "What am I feeling?". Seemingly basic in nature but to have the awareness to ask myself these questions amidst the pivotal moments in life.. This skill you've taught me is irreplaceable. Thank you.
- Gerald


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